Do Your Team Members Feel Safe Enough to Ask for Help?

How to promote safety and a culture of dialog in your team – and thus set the course for the future.

“Most of our customers have been navigating through the uncertainty of working in the new hybrid workplace,” says my colleague Maria Alonso, customer success manager at getAbstract, when I asked her about the latest trends in workplace issues. “Unsurprisingly, ‘How to be a virtual manager?’ is one of the most frequently asked questions in recent months,” she adds.

Yes, leaders are now facing a completely new approach to teamwork and it can be very challenging. One of the most popular topics that has come up in team meetings, our customers say, is: How can team members ask for help? And both of the questions mentioned have more in common with each other than it seems at first glance.

Sure, there are many paradigms that keep people from asking for help. It can be a cultural issue for some; it can be related to the impostor syndrome for others; and even be fear of being perceived as incompetent. However, for Maria and me the real question behind both of them is:

How can you as a manager ensure you’re creating a psychologically safe environment for your team members so they can speak up for themselves and ask for what they need without fear?

To answer this question adequately, you need to answer a few other questions – or at least know which aspects of work-life are relevant to the subject. We have therefore compiled a few useful summaries, getAbstract theme channels and Journal articles for you.

1. Do Your Team Members Feel Safe?

Related Summaries in getAbstract’s Library
Image of: The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety
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The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety

Unleash your employees’ untapped potential by offering them the freedom to learn, engage and innovate.

Timothy R. Clark Berrett-Koehler Publishers Read Summary
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Coping with Anxiety

This handy guide explains how to deal with anxiety, stop worrying and love your life.

Edmund Bourne and Lorna Garano New Harbinger Publications Read Summary

This is a question you should always ask yourself, not just when you are struggling with problems in your team, but all the time. Teams in which there is safety are productive teams. Read everything you need to know about the topic in the following three articles:

2. Do You Foster an Open Team Culture?

Team cultures that are open – where problems are talked about instead of swept under the rug – make it easier for employees to open up and ask the right questions at the right time.

Image of: Courageous Cultures
Book Summary

Courageous Cultures

Worthy leaders of courageous cultures ask their people to speak up. Then they listen.

Karin Hurt and David Dye HarperCollins Leadership
Read Summary

Hierarchical top-down cultures often make that impossible and have a few other disadvantages to boot. Read our interview with the authors of Courageous Cultures – one of our customers’ favorites of 2021 – and find out how you can make your team culture more open so everyone can have their say:

3. Does Anyone Feel “Incompetent”?

Good, you are maintaining an inclusive but internally open team culture – and yet colleagues don’t dare to speak out? Perhaps the employees in question suffer from the so-called “Imposter Syndrome”: They consider themselves insufficient, or overrated – and are afraid of “being exposed.”

This often affects even the best people, especially if they are rarely praised for achievements. So make sure you don’t take successes for granted, and give positive feedback when you think it’s appropriate. Read the following article, which, while targeted at employees who think they are “inadequate,” will give you some insight into this topic. Who knows, maybe you know the feeling from board meetings yourself?

4. Lead by Example

There are still plenty of managers and executives who think they are particularly strong and knowledgeable – and therefore never ask questions. If that’s the case, they shouldn’t be surprised when it rubs off on their colleagues and a culture of fear creeps in because everyone tries to come across as “infallible.”

Related Summaries in getAbstract’s Library
Image of: Doesn’t Hurt to Ask
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Doesn’t Hurt to Ask

Trey Gowdy’s clear guide to becoming more persuasive offers humorous stories from Congress and home.

Trey Gowdy Crown Publishing Group Read Summary
Image of: Questions Are the Answer
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Questions Are the Answer

Bold questions can lead to great innovations and are essential to human progress.

Hal Gregersen HarperBusiness Read Summary
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How to Think Clearly

Commit to this effective three-step process that promotes clear thinking and delivers effective communication.

Tom Chatfield Psyche Read Summary

This not only causes productivity in the team to plummet, but also leads to less innovation, higher staff turnover and more absenteeism. Therefore, ask (the right) questions! No method is easier to find good answers to pressing problems. Then, encourage everyone else to ask more questions, too.

5. What Happens if You Ignore All Tips Above?

The answer is simple: Your people will leave. Sooner rather than later. Because what’s happening on the job market right now plays into the hands of those managers who are focusing on safe team atmospheres, open cultures and more agile communication.

The following abstracts will help you identify important trends in employee retention and tell you how to act accordingly:

Related Summaries in getAbstract’s Library
Image of: Help Them Grow or Watch Them Go
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Help Them Grow or Watch Them Go

If your employees can’t learn and grow, they’ll leave.

Beverly Kaye and Julie Winkle Giulioni Berrett-Koehler Publishers Read Summary
Image of: The 7 Hidden Reasons Employees Leave
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The 7 Hidden Reasons Employees Leave

Employees rarely give the real reasons they quit. Now, get the scoop and fix the problems to keep them in their jobs.

Leigh Branham AMACOM Read Summary

So with the few easy-to-implement tricks, you have the power to keep your people together and celebrate shared success – on a large or small scale.

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