Seven Questions to Give Your (Work) Life the Momentum It Deserves

Things aren’t really moving forward in life; you’re easily irritable, perhaps at a loss? And while everyone else is joyfully talking about the “new normal,” you’re getting a rash? Here are the seven questions to ask yourself to move forward.

Seven Questions to Give Your (Work) Life the Momentum It Deserves

1. What Do I Need to Be Satisfied?

Name five things that you really need! Some find it easier and others more difficult to name these five things – very often, they are not material things or objects. They should be things that make your life better – both material and immaterial: love, attention, friends, a good office chair, an Interrail ticket?

Once you’ve made your list, next ask yourself: What’s missing in your life right now? If this list is shorter than the first, you’re on a good path. And if not, cross off the items that are less important to you until you are on the right track, and focus on those remaining items. 

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2. Who Am I When I Don’t Have to Pretend?

Most of us feel uncomfortable when we have to spend large parts of our (work) lives severely controlling our temper, not expressing opinions or otherwise pretending to be successful. A certain amount of self-control and temporary deferral of your own ideas and desires are beneficial – but if you’re expected to negate yourself constantly, it will eventually make you ill.

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3. What Would I Do if I Had Unlimited Courage?

How are your fears blocking you? In many cases, we are less aware of subliminal worries – this is where asking friends can help put us on the right track. Then ask yourself what you can do about it. If you are aware of your fears, you have already taken the biggest step towards combating them.

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4. What Limits Me?

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5. Why All This?

What used to be the number one question only in personality advice books is now the number one question in the business world: What is your “why”? What difference do you want to make in this world? There is usually not just one answer to this, but many. However, it’s not the number that matters but the impetus to move toward achieving their goal.

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6. What’s My Legacy?

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7. What Stands Between My Present Life and a Better Life?

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It is worth keeping the lists and asking yourself the same questions again every few months – to see what progress you are making and to determine how serious you are about making a change. And if you are serious, be happy about how your life is getting the momentum it deserves!

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